I know, I know........................its the return of the most inconsistent blogger ever but believe you me the last month has been no joke.
Between finishing off my disso and sitting 6 exams in four days and then having to prepare for an oral examination I haven't even had time to sleep let alone blog.
But no worries cos.....................
I'M FINISHED NOW!!
Yep I'm done with Uni now. No more essays or exams. I'm FREE. I can do whatever I want and I thoroughly intend to enjoy life over the next couple of months just because I fully deserve too.
So look forward to the usual brand of my writing, rants and observations you have become accustomed to at MIKEZ WORLD.
I know I am an inconsistent blogger, but I'm busy. Trust it burns me not to blog but I have to concentrate on other things at the moment. So this will just be a quick one.
So as I was surfing through the pages of Facebook I came along my friend's status update which I thought was very interesting, it read:
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wants to know why do guys act like sweet gentlemen at the beginning of something new, then a couple months later rip of their masks and reveal the TRUE DOG behind their imposterous identity??? I want to know!"
I thought it would have been obvious, I mean do females really need this questione answered? Its so simple. I mean its staring you right in the face. Anyway after certain people asked me to elaborate I gave reasons for what might cause a sudden change in the attitude of someone you are getting to know on that level. So here is what I wrote:
1)Guys know what to do in order "snare" or "entrap" a woman. They know they need to be as emotionally & physically attractive as possible. Now in most cases guys are just trying to "beat" and run. Guys are very crafty in the sense they will zero in on everything you want in a guy and then through some kind of Oscar nominated performance pretend to be that guy till you give it up. So when they are being chivalrous or being what you call a true gentleman, they are in fact acting knowing that this is how you'd prefer them to act so that eventually you'll nicely open your legs when the appropriate time comes.
2)In relationship formation it is standard practice that it is seen as "relationship suicide" if you come out right from the start about who you truly are. No one wants someone on their first encounter to come clean about all their insecurities, inhibitions and infidelities, so they portray the A-class standard of themselves just to give the relationship a chance to develop. After a while when the person deems that enough time has passed; they will start letting their true selves out in little doses or in some extreme cases all at once. All to an extent that the person you are left with standing in front of you no longer bares any resemblance to the person you initially got to know. Everyone does it, just depends to what extent you decide to do it.
3)They have just gotten comfortable. Not that they have been consciously trying to deceive you, but enough time has passed and they don't feel to adhere to certain rules of the "social contract" anymore and feel that your relationship has developed enough to withstand certain outbursts, or certain slips of the tongue. This is not really ripping off the mask but as a relationship develops then obviously you should be able to express certain things that you wouldn't have been able to at the beginning.
4)The person is looking to "dissolve the relationship" either because he has achieved or not achieved the goals set out in reason (1) and cannot be bothered to carry on with the act anymore. Or he is just putting on another act in trying to show his worst aspects of himself because he wants to end the relationship but does not want to be the one to actually do it. Guys are very smart in knowing that females feel a sense of power and accomplishment when they feel there is no saving a relationship and so decide to end it. What ladies do not know is that the guy will almost unconsciously force you to break up with him through the way he switches up his personality. So there is a win-win situation. The girl will feel she took the initiative in ending it and will have justification when they speak to their girls: "he was a dickhead anyway, I'm better off anyway". The guy will win knowing that he can say the girl ended it, if any arguments start and will have the added benefit of not looking like a playa when he moves onto his next victim.
This is an often used tactic that a lot of guys use to make sure the relationship ends on their terms even though the female may feel it ended on hers.
Can't think of anymore but those are the main reasons that came straight to my head in terms of why you may feel someone has changed from when you first met them to now.
Now don't go around accusing all your ex guys that they used these underhanded tactics. They may be other reasons that I have failed to mention, or who knows. Maybe they changed because there was a change in you first? I note, FEMALES use these same tactics as well, it is not a phenomena used exclusively by the male species.
Hope I have answered your question and not unwittingly caused any arguments between couples because of this.
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So I read a couple of other Blogs and from time to time I pop over to Bashy's word press blog and see what he is saying. I'm a big fan of his and I think he has what it takes to BLOW.
Anyway my housemate came to me the other day saying how there's a rumour Bashy got rushed and he put a pic up on his blog to confirm it:
Like other people I was kinda sceptical as to if the picture was real. I mean it does look very convincing but on closer inspection there isn't enough swelling if Bashy really did get touched like that. Bashy was very silent on the matter, not responding to people commenting on his blog and only leaving a cryptic saying by Ghandi.
So I thought I'd leave it and see what happens.
So I woke up this morning and came along this video................
It all became apparent. The pic was like a promo for his new video which you clearly see has Bashy sporting the same injuries as in the picture. The video also has another 2 artists I rate highly, Wretch and Scorcher. It's entitled Ransom Part 1, so I think it's safe to assume there might be another couple of videos being released.
Have to rate Bashy for this one man. I like artists that can push the boundaries and just do things differently. Gotta commend him on his originality. And the video looks very professional as well, just shows certain man are moving up the industry ladder.
Bashy's Album: Catch Me If You Can is released on June 1st. Might have to go buy myself a copy still.
So a couple of months ago I was sitting chilling in the pool room. Just talking to some people on FB chat like everyone else does.
Out of nowhere my friend Alexis pops up and starts screaming and raving about some guy called Drake.
I was like Drake who?
She then went on about how he's a signing to Weezy's cash money records and he released a new mixtape. A rapper and a vocalist she said. I immediately had my doubts because I'm sceptical of new musicians especially people trying to be more than one thing. But I'll give everyone a chance.
So I listened to the mixtape, and what else could I say??
IT WAS NANG, SICK, OUT OF THIS WORLD, IT WAS JUST..........................SO FAR GONE.
Had it on repeat for a good month but then I forgot about him until I saw this on Julie's Blog..
And then I was like, sheeeet, its Drake. And I thought I would share his music with you. Listen to it!!! Link below.
Recently on my FB I had a whole lot of weird statuses about the "City of Heartbreak" which really confused a lot of people, so I'm going to take some time out to explain what I was going through and what I was trying to achieve.
First off listen to this...................................................
YEEZY IS A GENIUS! FULL STOP. I DON'T CARE IF YOU THINK HE IS GAY, ARROGANT, WEIRD OR WHATEVER. SSSSSSSSSSSSHHHHHHHHHH!!!
I JUST DO NOT WANT TO HEAR IT! HE'S A GENIUS, CASE CLOSED!!
ok.
So if you have listened to this song and did not have it on repeat for a solid week then you are not listening to the song properly. Or you are just one of those unlucky people that can't understandKanye's music. The 1st time I heard the song I was in my uni's computer pool room and the song just had one different affect on me.
It was the line"Welcome To Heartbreak" that really got me. Where was this place and how do you get there? Obviously, I know Heartbreak is not a real place, but a state of being, and the only way to get there was to have my heartbroken.
Having my heartbroken is not something that I intend being done to me anytime soon, but I still wanted to go to this place. I'm stubborn like that.
So through Kanye's "abstract expression" and my powerful childlike imagination I created a world within Mikez World. Through the sheer power of my imagination and craziness I created a little community in the nether regions of my mind. And "Heartbreak" was created.
Now, in this community where all those heartbroken fools who moped around all depressed and did nothing all day. Crying over the ones who had caused their fragile hearts to break in the first place. Among these down trodden people I found a place I could call home...........so I started property hunting.
I found a nice little house and put this as my doormat:
I thought my fellow neighbours would accept me, they didn't. I mean I was heartbroken just not in the sense they were. My heart was broken in the sense I think its faulty. I find it very hard to care for people and when I don't care for someone they mean absolutely nothing to me. I'm what you might call cold hearted. I also did not care for intimate relationships either. Something I thought heartbroken people could relate to.
But the other residents of Heartbreak did not accept me, they complained that I didn't belong and I should leave. I pleaded my case but they would not listen.
(This is all played out on my FB statuses, if you don't understand read back over my statuses and you should start to piece it together and understand)
I liked expressing myself abstractly through my statuses even though not many people got them. People thought I was actually heartbroken, as if someone could actually touch my heart let alone break it. PLEASE.
Even though I explicitly stated I was not heartbroken, I just guess some people are illiterate.
But I decided to go back to my controversial statuses and all my FB friends rejoiced.
LOL , stupid idiots, they don't know a genius when they see one. I guess me and my boi Kanye will just have to remain misunderstood.
So the other day I was in Canterbury for my friends Rave.
Me, Rets, Ross, Nana and Shufflez had all gone down there for a road trip. We had bare joke along the way but this is not the reason for this post.
When we got to the club we were all a lil high and I wasn't really in the mood for raving. One of the reasons I go raving is too make sure I dance I have a good time. If any of you have seen me in a rave skankin it up with my man dem then you know I go hard. Sweatin real hard. However much I pay to get into the rave is the buckets I need to sweat from dancing to make me feel I've got my moneys worth. I don't know if it was that I got in free that I didn't feel like dancing or I just wasn't in the raving mood, but my two feet were not moving to the rhythm of any beat.
Now, when I'm in this mood I can always rely on the fact that there will always be some good eye candy to feast my eyes into. Someone had told me that there were bare choong girls in Kent as well so I was a little excited.
I WAS EXTREMELY DISAPPOINTED!
Every girl that walked past me, different phrases kept flashing through my head:
"ErgghhButtaz" ..............................
"Lol, Fucked up weave".........................
"Can't dress"......................
"What did I say about obese people in raves?? BAN THEM"..............
"Flat bum"......................................
"No Breasts"...............................
"Fuck, How can you smell like that?".......................
"Didn't try"................................
"Plz don't look at me like that. I'm not looking at you cos' I think your nice and I'm deciding if I should move to you or not. I'm looking at you because I can't believe your face looks like that all the time!".........................
And it went on and on and on. I mean I was disappointed, but at least I kept myself entertained. I think I kept others entertained as well because I other people had caught on to what I was doing from when every girl that passed me I would just start shaking my head in disappointment.
After that, I realised "evaluating" people in my head is something I do a lot. I mean I just can't help it, my mind is always working. I mean, before I even know it my brain already has 6 bullets of cussing ammo loaded in the insult shotgun ready to explode out of my mouth.
But the thing is; it rarely does. I like the idea that my mind is my own personal territory that no one else can penetrate. If only you people knew what passed through my head sometimes.......................you would be shocked, trust me. But don't start getting paranoid now.
Yh I know I'm a waste man for not posting when I said I would.
But between working and writing a dissertation I have no time to do anything but I've been feeling overly creative recently and I had to release something.
So because a few of you wonderful people know that my dissertation is on youth violence, quite a number of you text me a couple of nights ago telling me to watch channel 4 because you thought it was relevant to my disso.
It wasn't that relevant at all but it was interesting none the less.
And it poses the very real question that in any given situation when another member of our society is in trouble would we help them even if it meant risk to our own well being?
Now being where we are from, it is an unspoken rule that you just simply don't get involved in someone else's affairs if it does not concern you. It is not your beef so why should you get involved? Which is very true and it also protects you. Because even a polite "what's going on" can lead to the tables turning on you and before you know it your in a life threatening situation.
There was one story when a little boy was getting rushed on a packed bus by a group of like 15 youths and everyone just ignored it like it was not happening. Which I thought was shocking but I questioned myself and I would have probably done the same thing.
I remember going to a temp job around Christmas times like 2 years ago and I was on Tottenham High Road at like 5:30 in the morning. I was walking towards the bus stop and there seemed to be one crazy guy talking to two people. As I got closer I realised it was a typical "Jacking" situation where the guy was searching the guys looking for possessions he could steal.
Now I just walked past pretending not to see what was happening, just praying the guy did not see me as a potential victim because it was way too early for me to start fighting. But my bus came and I hopped on it just thankful this crazy guy had not tried to approach me. I do not know what happened to the other two guys.............................
And that's just the thing. In this day and age even if we see someone is in need of help, would we help them? I'm sure the usual things run through our heads...
"Its not my place to get involved"
"What about if I get hurt trying to help this person?"
"Maybe they deserve it, who knows, they might have a valid reason for wanting to hurt the person?"
The documentary told the story of a woman called Roisin whose son had seen some children getting jacked and he decided to go and intervene. Unfortunately, he was fatally stabbed by the guy who was doing the jacking. A sad story I know but a real one. There is no guarantee when intervening in a dangerous situation that you will come out safe the other side.
There was another story of a guy who was getting his head kicked in by some crazy guy, luckily a passer by and a wife came to the guys rescue and saved his life.
So what would your choice be?
I guess it all comes down to what you could live with. Could you live with the fact that a person died when it was well within your means to help them? Or could you not live with the fact that by you helping someone it could end up with you being the one seriously harmed and your friends and family grieving over you.
I don't really have an answer, guess you just have to be in that type of situation.
So as you can see the long awaited renovations have finally been done. Because its been a while some of you guys might not actually remember what v1.0 looked like but trust me its different.
There is only one person to thank for this,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,and that's my blogging mentor JULIE.
She did everything out of the kindness of her heart. So finally things are starting to fall into place.
And don't worry I got some proper blog posts in the pipe waiting to be published.
Probably one of the most underrated and greatest UK soul singers we have ever had. And the song I have for you today is his most succesful track.
Lynden David Hall - Sexy Cinderella.
In October 2003, Hall was diagnosed with Hodgkin's lymphoma; he died on 14 February 2006, at the age of 31, from complications resulting from the stem cell transplant he received in January 2005. Lynden was in remission at the time of his death.
RIP Lynden David Hall, You're music will surely live on.....................
I'm feeling weird at the moment because I had forgot that on the 2nd February it was my Dad's anniversary of death. I was all caught up with the commotion of the snow day and feeling overjoyed that I got to miss work and had no Uni that I had forgotten the day that had been on my mind for the last couple of weeks.
1827 is the exact number of days since my dad passed away (including the two leap days, just in case ur neeky).
Obviously this is a sensitive subject for me but I feel that after 5 years I can finally talk about it to a degree. I'm not gonna talk about my whole experience cos' I'm definitely not that open but I'm just going to write about how in 5 years I have grown from a boy to a man.
Today was the day exactly five years ago when my father was taken away from me, suddenly and unexpectedly. I do not need to tell you that it was very hard time for me and my family. And if any of you know about Nigerian culture, you know that it is up to the first born son to take over as the head of the household and take over the responsibilities of the recently deceased father. Now, hearing this as a sixteen year old I did not want this responsibility, or burden which is how I saw it. I was Young and selfish. I did not want any other responsibilities, I wanted to carry on acting immature and not having a care in the world. But life has a funny way of thrusting you into these kind of positions.
Losing someone in life is never something easy to get over, especially when they gave life to you. I can't be bitter because I did have him in my life for 16 years and I know there are many people who don't even know their dads. But no matter how many years pass I know life never gets easier without him. I just know life goes on, regardless. Its even weirder because no matter how much I used to deny it, every time I look in the mirror I see him staring back at me. I look more and more like him very passing day. And I hold the lesson's he taught me close to my heart and always try to follow them through.
It seems like it was only a couple of months ago we were making funeral arrangements. And now 5 years has passed already. I don't know where the time has gone, honestly. I mean 5 years? Just passed like that. I can't really get my mind around it. But in that time I've learnt to be self sufficient, I learned to handle my business and I learnt what it truly means to be considered a man. I learnt how to accept responsibility for my mistakes and apologise for them. I don't really have any regrets, and I wouldn't have done anything differently.
I only wish I could have gotten to know him better.
But I'm thankful for the time we did spend together, and the knowledge he infused in me and the love he showed me.
I'm proud to be your son, and I will always miss you.
Life doesn't get any easier but I know you wouldn't accept any excuses, so I carry on for you and the family you left me to look after.
I Haven't seen it for years because I'm usually on holiday when it does decide to snow. You could imagine my surprise when I woke up to this beautiful sight:
Obviously, the first thing to cross my mind was whether Uni was closed for the day. I held my breath as I checked the Uni website to see if this was the case.
UNI IS CLOSED DUE TO WEATHER CONDITIONS
YES!!!!
Next I had to check to see if I still had to go to work. It would really make my day if I didn't have to go in. Called in, they said I didn't have to come in ..............................YES.
After this great news I decided to celebrate by picking up a Wii remote and playing a couple of rounds of Mario Kart with the Yungas. Luckily Ross had gone shopping the day before so we didn't have to brave the harsh weather conditions to get food. Unlike some unfortunate friends I have who did not see the NUMEROUS news reports advising people not to leave their houses, who decided to go for a stroll and do some shopping. It soon dawned on them after trekking for 3 hours that they had made a mistake and after constant slips and falls they decided to turn back. But the damage had been done. Last I heard one of them is dying in bed with pneumonia and the other is an icicle in a park somewhere. Silly Eediots!!!!
Neway after like 6 hours of Mario Kart we got bored and decided to venture out side into the beautiful winter wonder land.
I decided to wrap up warm and return to my ninja days. I know certain people will see dis pic and get flashbacks of the masked snow avenger that used to dish out large snowballs of pain when it snowed. aaaaaaaaaaaaah memories. So we continued on:
We then decided to go and cause mischief elsewhere. So we hopped into Rets' car looking for unsuspecting victims. Unfortunately we did not make it 10 metres before his steering locked and we were sliding aimlessly towards a parked car. Lets just say we had to work quickly to move the car and leave no trace of the accident, some real CSI shit. It was not easy because we were on a hill which was frozen over and we had no grip but we got it done in the end.
We then decided to walk to the Avenue and pay a visit to our good friends at 32. They didn't want to come out and play so we decided to have our own brand of fun.
Aaaah Good times. We then took the brief walk back home. After reflecting on my day I realised that it was a great day. Then I went online and realised that HEROES was back!!! That just made my day and snow day 09 was officially crowned one of the best days of my life!!
Oh My Dayz............................ I'm really going to bring back a lot of memories with this one. This is an Old Skool Garage Classic. I mean SHEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEET. Do I know my music or do I know my music? I know when you listen to the song you're gonna be like "that was my TUUUUUUUUUNE!"
Any way for your listening pleasure here's MJ Cole - Crazy Love. I tried to get the original video for you but youtube would not let me embed the actual video. But you can just go there yourself and watch the actual video to bring bakc even more memories. But the live performance is not bad at all.
Yeah Yeah Yeah, I KNOW! I ain't put up a proper blog post in time, but llow me. I've been over busy recently. But I'm taking a few minutes out of my busy schedule to bless you with some well deserved observations from within MIKEZ WORLD. I mean its only fair, you guys have been waiting a while now.
Now if you're one of my FB friends then you know I put up rather controversial status updates form time to time. Now over the last month or so I've been seeing more and more females with a certain hairstyle. I know you know which one I'm talking about. One of my female friends referred to them as "bangs", its like the female version of the mohicans bare man dem have back in endz. But yeah it is hairstyle that Rihanna does very well: I have to admit Rihanna looks good in her chosen hairstyle. But too many times have I walked past females that cannot see where they are going because the fringe is covering their eyes and trying to reach down to their lips. I mean why does your fringe have to be that extreme? God gave you eyes for a reason. I think "bangs" is a suitable name for this hairstyle because that's what sound you will hear when you walk straight into a street lamp if you're not careful. That's not to say I have not seen girls pull of this hairstyle, cos I have. BUT that does not mean that everyone is able too. Now for Rihanna, it is not merely a hairstyle, it is a clever cover because she has an unusually large forehead:SHEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEET.
Anyway it is not hard to see why I call it the "Cousin IT" hairstyle:
Also, again Rihanna is known for wearing lipstick, which again I say she can pull off:
But too many females have this "if she can do it, then I can too" attitude which is simply not true. There have been too many FB photo albums I look through with females thinking they'll just dab some lipstick on and just end up looking horrendous. If you do not look good with lipstick on then just LEAVE IT ALONE!!
Better to look normal with no lipstick on than gamble and end up looking like a Victorian prostitute. Hopefully my advice will be heeded.
But anyway certain people are starting to think I'm a female hater cos one too many of posts have been dedicated to the failings of their looks so I promise I won't do anyhting like this for a while. Just had to do this one to get it off my chect.
This post is in response to a Facebook status I had a couple of months ago which got a lot of interesting responses. The actual phrase was coined by my cousin (I added the tribal scars bit) when we went to an Nigerian function together about a year ago. Now we went there just planning to have a good time and obviously feast our eyes on the beauty Africa had to offer. Unfortunately African beauty couldn't it make it that night and sent ugliness in its place as a very poor substitute. Instead of a nice group of females who I could talk to I was faced with the hostile and snotty attitude of a group of African females. It was a thing where we had walked in and before we had even collected out plate of jollof rice and assorted meats these girls were already looking at us like we were vermin. They gave us the "Don't even try move to us, otherwise you're going to get turfed" kind of look. One of them even had the skill to cut her eyes, kiss her teeth and turn her nose up at us all at the same time. I could hear their tough African accents getting gassed cos' they thought they were the shit. I mean I could understand if you are choong and ever since you were 15 you've had all manner of boys trying to move to you and you just don't want the hassle. But when I say these girls were ugly, I mean U.G.L.Y. I know some of you might seem that the word is harsh, but honestly there is no other word I can think of to fully encapsulate the emotions that ran through my body when I proper took time to gaze upon their faces. If you're ugly then you're ugly, there's no two ways about it. I'm sorry its just that simple.
Now on a later reflection I was wondering if there was a mirror shortage that I did not know about at the time. Because it must be obvious to someone who is good looking impaired that they are ugly. There is a constant reminder when they look in the mirror, when they pass a shop window, even when they pass a car. So I'm baffled as to where this attitude of choongness comes from. That for me is one of the audacious crimes a person can commit. To go on choong when you are ugly.
Now if your memory is failing you at the moment just lemme give you a little reminder of what Beyonce looks like: Beyonce is no doubt a beautiful woman and it is understandable why African females would see her a suitable role model to base themselves upon. I started thinking maybe it was because these girls probably thought that they had bodies which entitled to such a sour attitude. Now we know African females are known for having bodies, but this is still no excuse.
Don't even get me started on the tribal scars I was seeing as well. You see those ones where the cuts look like the same ones on freshly baked bread. Ones where the cuts are so deep it still looks like the skin is being stretched apart. And the cuts are so deep you can start to see the white of the cheekbones.
Most of these African girls would like to believe they look like Beyonce or if they know they have a body at least like this:
But in reality you're closer to this:
Now don't get me wrong. I know a lot of beautiful African females and I love my African sisters. Its just these ugly ones that think too much of themselves that I can't stand. And ladies I'm sure there are certain guys out there that you feel exactly the same about.
All I'm saying is your daddy may have gassed your head with tales of princesses and that you are beautiful and these off the boat African guys have told you every lie under the sun to get you into bed but PLEASE stop fooling yourselves. Don't allow an ugly personality go hand in hand with your ugly face as well.
Now this a blog post 5 years in the making. On my travels and numeorus encounters with the species known as the opposite sex; I always seem to find one common denominator between most of them. And that is
THE EX
I hate them, I hate them, I hate them!!!!
Now, I'm sure your wondering where all this pent up aggression originates from. Let me tell you:
In my short 21 years of life I have had the (dis)pleasure of meeting a lot of females and becoming friends with them. With these interactions it is only human that I would like to take a few of these friendships further (if you know what I'm saying). Everything would be going fine until someone comes along to f**k it up. Yep, you guessed it people...................THE EX.
I tell you people he is an abomination. A block between two people really trying to get to know each other. He is an emotional terrorist with many weapons at his disposal. I tell you people The Ex is one of the most cunning creatures you will ever meet. And their sole purpose is to intentionally f**k up everything you and your new partner are trying to accomplish.
When you want some alone time with your new partner, he will be there ringing of her phone like a mad man. He will be there sending 10 texts in the space of 10 minutes. Ranging from "I thought you loved me, how could you do this to me?",to - "Ok I accept you have someone new, but can't we just be friends, to "Your a f*****g p***k watch when I see you!".
You can see people that The Ex is an emotionally unbalanced individual. But there is an even more sinister variation to The Ex. That is the Crazy/Psychotic/Deranged Ex.
CRAZY + THE EX = TROUBLE
The crazy Ex in public, will act well balanced, logical and sane but when they are behind closed doors and once they start feeling a little lonely all that is thrown out the window. It really is a case od Dr Jekyll and Mr Hyde. The good guy disappears and the psycho comes out. I know a lot of people reading this will know at least one person that has had to deal with a crazy ex if you haven't had to deal with one yourself.
The craxy Ex persists in being a problem. They will not allow their old partner to move on with their lives in any way, shape or form. They act as if p***y is going to become extinct and the only one that is going to survive is the girl you're trying to move to. Seriously, p***y is not going anywhere, its so abundant you can find it anywhere! I mean there are plenty more fish in the sea, MOVE ON!! You had your chance just move on. Why continue to degrade yourself when its clear she will not take you back.
But there is something that really pisses me off more than crazy Ex's. It is the females that entertain their Ex's abnormal behaviour or even in some extreme cases they still like they're ex. These females I have no respect so whatsoever. They will not only lead a guy to believe they have a future together but when the times is right they will then throw him away like a used condom. I understand if you were together for 4 years and he took your virginity, and you were going to get married and all your firends and family know each other blah blah blah (all that is BS to me). You obviously broke up for a reason and if you continue to have an unhealthy obsession with your ex then you'll just end up messing up future relationships. Thinking about, I guess every guy will play second fiddle to the guy that came before him, I guess that's just how it works.
I hope this post hasn't brought up any bad memories and if your a crazy ex then I plead with you................ please change your ways!!! And if your still into ur ex and you don't want to move on with your life then I have no respect for you and you can carry on with your pitiful existence. F*****G WASTE PEOPLE!!
Until next time people.........................................I'M OUT.
This will be a recurring element on my page amongst other things. Now you know I Love music. Me and music have had a love affair that has spanned almost a decade now and although we've been through some rough patches we're as strong as ever.
She's down for me and I'm down for her!!
So every week I will be searching my extensive music data banks and bringing back the tunes and Da Jams form back in the day that you should never forget.
So my first Forget Me Not will actually be Forget Me Nots by Patrice Rushen. This infectious tune was released in the early 1980's and was a dance floor hit. Some of you may recognise the beat from the Will Smith song- Men In Black- which was the title song for the soundtrack for the movie Men In Black which was a Box Office Smash.
So here is my first B.I.D.R.O.W (Back In the Day Record Of the Week) Patrice Rushen with Forget Me Nots.
